Q: How does one fall out of love? I’ve been in love with the same woman for most of my adult life. [She does not know and is happily married with children.] I welcome suggestions.
Mu: Fall in love with yourself. The rest will fall into place.
Q: No… I’m not worthy.
Mu: If you really believe that, you are blocking your own blessings. When we free our mind of the self-defeating conditioned silliness, we liberate ourselves from our suffering. We are not here to be martyrs. We do not need to earn love. Just BE love. Everyone holds the key to their own self-imposed prison cell. Having the courage to use it is a choice.
The question as I see it, is why choose suffering and self-loathing over love and freedom? What’s the payoff?